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The nature of dependence and the legal recognition of same-sex relationships

The nature and assumption of financial dependence in heterosexual and homosexual relationships and implications for legal recognition of those relationships.


Natalie Hill

Natalie Hill is a lawyer in the Information Law Branch of the Commonwealth Attorney-General’s Department.
The views in this article are those of the author and do not necessarily represent those of the Department.

There are growing calls for legal recognition of same-sex couples. Legal recognition of same-sex relationships is necessary to reduce discrimination experienced by same-sex couples.

Recently, there has been some action at a political level. While, as a whole, Australian governments are not rushing to recognise same-sex relationships, at least they are beginning to display a willingness to open the issue for public discussion. For example, in 1997 the Victorian Equal Opportunity Commission produced a Discussion Paper on Same-sex Relationships. In recent months the Human Rights and Equal Opportunity Commission produced a report that deals with access of same-sex partners to superannuation entitlements. Before the recent NSW election the Significant Relationships Bill 1997 and the De Facto Relationships Amendment Bill 1998, which both dealt with same-sex relationships, were before the NSW Parliament, and the NSW Standing Committee on Social Issues conducted an inquiry into the De Facto Relationships Amendment Bill. In some States limited recognition has already been achieved in some areas, for example, in 1998 the NSW Parliament passed some amendments recognising same-sex couples in the areas of workers and victims compensation. NSW has recently joined the ACT in recognising same-sex relationships in a more comprehensive manner. The Property (Relationships) Legislation Amendment Act 1999 (NSW),[1] the majority of which commenced on 28 June 1999, amends the De Facto Relationships Act 1984 (NSW) and other Acts to deal with same-sex relationships.

Calls for recognition of same-sex relationships raise the question of the most appropriate form of recognition of those relationships.[2] Should same-sex relationships be recognised as de facto relationships? Should the marriages of same-sex couples receive legal recognition? Are other forms of recognition more appropriate?

The basis for recognition of same-sex relationships

One approach to finding a solution to the questions surrounding the most appropriate way of recognising same-sex relationships is to examine the basis on which particular forms of recognition are afforded to heterosexual couples in our society. Once the basis for the conferral of that form of recognition is determined the extent to which it is relevant to homosexual couples should be considered. This article examines the extent to which those same forms of recognition continue to be relevant in relation to modern heterosexual relationships. Such an examination may also raise the question of whether there are forms of recognition relevant to homosexual couples that will not be relevant to heterosexual couples, but this provides another topic in itself and will not be examined here.

What follows is a discussion of one issue that has been raised as an argument against certain forms of recognition of same-sex relationships.[3] That issue is dependence.

This discussion focuses on financial, rather than emotional, dependence. The issue of financial dependence will need to be considered in any examination of the relevance of certain forms of legal recognition to significant emotional relationships.

Benefits of being a party to a recognised relationship

Whether partners are married or in a de facto relationship the legal recognition of a significant emotional relationship leads to a number of benefits for partners in heterosexual couples. I will consider two types of benefits that accrue to the partners in heterosexual marriages and de facto relationships.

Emotional benefits

Emotional benefits are primarily next of kin rights in relation to the death or illness of a partner. They include the right to visit a patient in intensive care and to take bereavement and family care leave, the automatic award of guardianship, which provides the power to give medical consent and control of other affairs, and the ability to authorise organ donation and postmortem, to request an inquest with a jury, and to claim for psychological/psychiatric injury following the death or injury of a partner. Other emotional benefits include the ability to claim exemption in relation to giving evidence against a partner and the right to be considered for protection in relation to bail applications.

Economic benefits

Economic benefits consist of legal rights of access to the courts in relation to financial matters arising from the partnership, such as the right to challenge a deceased partner’s will and access to provisions of the Family Law Act 1975 (Cth) or de facto relationship legislation on the breakdown of the relationship.[4] Currently, economic benefits are awarded on the same basis as the majority of emotional benefits, that is, the participation of the individual in an emotionally significant heterosexual relationship.

Basis for awarding emotional and economic benefits

The extent to which awarding economic benefits on the same basis as emotional benefits is appropriate deserves consideration. Emotional benefits are primarily afforded to members of heterosexual couples on the basis that they have a significant emotional relationship with the other partner in the couple. Emotional benefits provide rights to each member of the couple that recognise the significant intimate nature of the relationship to which the partners belong by giving the partners rights in relation to each other and in relation to the rest of the community in accordance with the nature of their relationship. Therefore, the attribution of emotional benefits on the basis of the existence of a significant intimate emotional relationship appears to be appropriate.

Economic benefits are also attributed to partners in a heterosexual relationship primarily on the basis of participation in an emotionally significant relationship. However, the reason for this cannot be so obviously linked to the significant intimate nature of the relationship because economic benefits are not about rights individuals might have in relation to the intimate life choices of their partner or recognition by the community that a significant intimate relationship exists between two people. Economic benefits are about property and its division.

The basis on which economic benefits are afforded to heterosexual couples should be given careful consideration in establishing whether it is appropriate for those benefits to be attributed to homosexual couples. A closely associated question is whether the attribution of economic benefits on the basis of the existence of an emotionally significant relationship also remains appropriate for heterosexual couples.

Dependence in heterosexual and homosexual relationships

Historically, financial dependence and inequality between partners has underlain heterosexual relationships. This has shaped the way in which heterosexual relationships have been recognised by the legal system. An assumption that one partner will be financially dependent on the other in a heterosexual relationship may account for the attribution of economic benefits on the same basis as emotional benefits, that is, on the basis of membership of an emotionally significant relationship. As a result, economic benefits appear to be granted to the partners in a heterosexual couple merely because they are members of a recognised couple (that is, as a direct result of the public manifestation of their relationship) and there is no further examination of the basis on which those benefits should be granted.

The diversity of modern relationships, whether heterosexual or homosexual, reduces the effectiveness of generalisation along the lines of sexuality. This is also true in relation to the assumption of dependence. The underlying assumption of dependence is becoming less relevant for heterosexual couples as the prevalence of couples in which both partners are engaged in full-time employment for most of the relationship, or share the time taken out of the workforce to care for children, increases. At the same time, homosexual partners may structure their relationship so that one partner is dependent on the other, particularly if the couple assumes caring responsibilities for children or others.

The corollary of the assumption of dependence in heterosexual relationships is an assumption that homosexual relationships do not involve dependence. There appears to be an assumption that there is no detrimental role division in same-sex partnerships. As the assumption is not always true in heterosexual relationships equally the corollary does not hold true in all homosexual relationships.

Historically, the absence of dependence is not the reason homosexual relationships have been denied recognition, however, dependence is now being identified as one of the factors that make homosexual relationships unsuitable for recognition in the same way as heterosexual relationships.[5]

Nature of dependence

Some reluctance to recognise homosexual relationships in the same way as heterosexual relationships on the grounds of dependence may stem from a realisation that the nature of dependence is different in homosexual and heterosexual relationships.

Although it is not appropriate to generalise concerning the existence of dependence on the basis of sexuality, it is possible to identify societal and state pressures that operate on heterosexual couples to encourage dependence, and influence the internal ordering of heterosexual relationships, that do not operate in relation to homosexual couples.

Once the effect of these state and societal pressures on heterosexual couples is realised it may be argued that because a relationship of dependence is encouraged by the state and society, and the internal ordering of the relationship is also influenced by state and societal pressure, individuals who adopt relationships of dependence in response to those pressures are in some way more deserving of redress for the disadvantages they suffer than those who adopt relationships of dependence by choice. Following this line of argument, it is the nature of dependence, based on the degree of free choice involved in the adoption of the relationship of dependence, that dictates whether that dependence should lead to recognition by the state, rather than the fact of dependence itself.

State and societal pressures and the adoption of relationships of dependence

The state encourages dependence and influences the internal ordering in heterosexual relationships in some circumstances. For example, the administration of social security benefits aggregates the incomes of married couples and people in marriage-like relationships for the purposes of income and assets tests.[6] This works to reinforce the dependence of the unemployed spouse on the employed spouse in heterosexual relationships, but does not work in the same way to reinforce the dependence of homosexual partners because homosexual couples are currently excluded from the definition of marriage-like relationships. A further example of such influence can be found in the application of the cohabitation rule. The cohabitation rule can disqualify a parent who is caring for a child from receiving a sole parents pension if that parent enters into a marriage-like relationship,[7] thereby encouraging dependence. The absence of adequate income support for an unemployed spouse, or a heterosexual parent who, as part of a couple, takes time away from paid employment in order to care for a child, forces dependence.

Given that in heterosexual relationships women are more likely than men to adopt the home making role and child caring responsibilities should there be a need for one partner in the relationship to do so, these initiatives have the effect of reinforcing the dependence of women in heterosexual relationships.

Not only the operation of the law, but also the operation of social and economic policies encourage women to become financially dependent on men once they enter a heterosexual relationship and have children. Notably, this is achieved by the lack of adequate and affordable childcare combined with the inability of women, generally, to command wages equivalent to those commanded by men.[8] Apart from any specific disadvantage a woman may suffer on account of her caring and domestic duties, the sexual division in the workforce means that satisfying, well paid, jobs may not be available to significant numbers of women.[9]

Further, a broadly socially accepted sexual division of labour within heterosexual relationships is often responsible for the dependence of one spouse on the other. Importantly, women’s dependence on men within heterosexual relationships is reinforced because it is women who are socialised into adopting the role of carer within the family.[10] They are responsible not only for children, but for elderly relatives, or any other member of the family when they become sick. This sort of carer work is unpaid and as a result for a woman to carry out fulltime caring functions she must either be dependent either on a man or on the state. Even where a woman with carer responsibilities does participate in the workforce her employment is limited by the constraints of her domestic and caring obligations.

Compounding this situation, child rearing places women in a position of economic vulnerability. It not only makes many heterosexual women directly dependent on men for the duration of child rearing but it reduces a woman’s ability to compete effectively in the workforce. This is because she has forgone her opportunity to gain experience and seniority in the paid workforce and the skills gained in the home may not be recognised by prospective employers.

Although parents in same-sex couples may experience similar detriment in relation to child rearing, the point of significance is that in heterosexual relationships the combination of state and societal pressure encourages dependence in heterosexual relationships more often and results in a pattern relating to which party is more likely to bear the disadvantages of dependence. These disadvantages are primarily borne by women in heterosexual relationships.

It is, therefore, clear that there are forces operating on heterosexual couples that tend towards and reinforce the dependence of one partner on the other and influence the internal order of the relationship that do not operate to the same extent in relation to homosexual couples. Homosexual couples may adopt a relationship of dependence but their choices are not socially constructed in the same way as heterosexual couples’ choices and for that reason may be seen as choices that are relatively freely made and therefore, in so far as dependence is considered, unproblematic from a policy perspective.

As discussed above, it is possible to take the step from this analysis to the argument that because dependence in homosexual relationships is driven and influenced by forces different from dependence in heterosexual relationships, individuals involved in homosexual relationships should not have access to the same measures available to heterosexual couples to redress any financial disadvantages suffered as a result of that dependence.

Experience of dependence

The argument that a relationship of dependence encouraged by the state and other external pressures is deserving of recognition and redress in relation to disadvantage suffered on the basis that the individuals involved are restricted by the social construction of their choice is an argument with validity, particularly in relation to the manner in which the state deals directly with the couple.

However, such an analysis fails to recognise that even though a member of a homosexual couple may freely choose to assume a dependent role in a relationship, the fact of dependence is still experienced by that individual and they may suffer disadvantage as a result. Most significantly neglected by the analysis is the impact the assumption of child rearing responsibilities has on the members of a couple whether they are homosexual or heterosexual. If a couple chooses to rear a child at home with one parent adopting the full-time primary caring responsibility for that child, in most cases one member of the couple will need to assume a role of dependence. The fact that in heterosexual relationships a pattern exists in which it will more often be the woman who assumes the role of dependent does not alter the fact that one member of the couple must assume that role. A homosexual parent assuming full-time caring responsibilities for a child does not choose dependence as freely as it might at first appear under the above analysis because one member of the couple must assume that role in order to care for the child in any event. Once that role is assumed by a carer or parent in a same-sex couple that person experiences dependence as does a heterosexual carer or parent.

If there are no intervening policy considerations necessitating discouragement of same-sex couples adopting relationships of dependence and assuming caring responsibilities within those relationships, then there should be no justification for treating dependence in same-sex relationships differently than in heterosexual relationships.

As the experience of dependence and the associated disadvantages are a fact for both homosexual and heterosexual couples it is not appropriate to deny individuals in homosexual couples the economic benefits available to individuals in heterosexual couples on the basis that their dependence is not influenced by the same state and societal forces. As we are discussing mechanisms for redress that operate between the members of a couple, for example the ability to challenge the will of a deceased, not benefits received directly from the state, there seems to be little basis for arguing that these economic benefits should be available only to those who have been influenced in the internal ordering of their relationship by state and societal pressure.

Mechanisms for redress between members of a couple on the breakdown of a relationship

Currently, mechanisms for recognising and redressing disadvantages that may flow from the adoption of a relationship of dependence in homosexual relationships are complex and cumbersome. Members of same-sex couples are forced to rely on the common law, except in the ACT and NSW where the Domestic Relationships Act 1994 (ACT) and the Property (Relationships) Act 1984 (NSW) deal with same-sex relationships.

Legislation dealing with the distribution of property on the breakdown of a heterosexual relationship, such as the Family Law Act 1975 (Cth), and the De Facto Relationships Act 1996 (SA) serve a remedial function. One of the objects of the acts is to redress economic disparities created through role divisions assumed during relationships. The courts attempt to redress such economic disparities by considering factors such as the financial and non-financial contributions of the parties during the relationship.

Role divisions that cause a relationship of dependence and lead to economic disparities requiring some measure of redress may occur, albeit under the influence of different pressures, in both heterosexual and homosexual relationships. If the role of law in this area is remedial, and its purpose is to give proper recognition to, among other things, different types of contributions made throughout the course of a relationship, there is no justification for denying relief on the basis of the sexuality of the partners. When viewed in this way there does not seem to be any justification for excluding homosexual couples from the quicker, cheaper, more predictable and more flexible methods of resolving their disputes under the available legislation on the basis of an assumption that in such a relationship there is no relevant dependence. Exactly what form of recognition is the most appropriate is a question left for another day.

In a recent article examining the results of a survey of the views of the gay and lesbian community in relation to the legal recognition of their relationships, Sarantakos concludes that in light of the inconclusive results, and the concerns expressed in the survey about the forced recognition of those in clandestine relationships, the recognition of same-sex relationships should proceed in a manner that allows personal choice.[11] Although valid, I believe that it is also important that the emphasis on personal choice does not result in a situation where dependent members of same-sex couples are denied access to legal mechanisms that would assist them to redress any detriment they have suffered as a result of their dependence because the other member of the couple exercises their choice not to have the relationship recognised. Some of Sarantakos’ survey participants expressed similar concern in their responses.[12] In a subsequent article, Sarantakos notes this danger in a discussion on registered domestic partnerships.[13] The remedial function of the legislation at issue is of great use in relation to the least powerful members of a relationship. Allowing the dominant partner in a relationship to avoid their obligation to the less dominant partner by providing them with a choice about recognition of the relationship may not be a satisfactory outcome. However, the issues surrounding the public recognition of same-sex relationships does complicate the treatment of such relationships.

An alternative

On the basis of this analysis it may seem more appropriate to attribute economic benefits, to the extent that they are based on an assumption of dependence, on the basis of the existence of a relationship of dependence, and to attribute emotional benefits on the basis of the existence of an emotionally significant relationship. Such an approach would apply without regard to the sexuality of the individuals involved. It would seem to achieve the aim of redressing the inequities borne by individuals, created by the adoption of a relationship of dependence, that the conferral of economic benefits on heterosexual couples was historically intended to achieve. At the same time this approach provides recognition appropriate to those in emotionally significant relationships.

It is recognised, however, that such an approach would deny partners who were not engaged in a dependent relationship access to provisions dealing with the distribution of property on the breakdown of a relationship in legislation like the Family Law Act 1975 (Cth) and the De Facto Relationships Act 1996 (SA). This result is not desirable because in practice, as well as performing a remedial function, such legislation also assists with property division where no such remedial function is necessary. This result demonstrates that the analysis cannot be completed by considering only one possible basis on which economic benefits may be conferred. Financial dependence is not the only consideration. To arrive at a complete picture, an analysis of each of the bases for the attribution of legal recognition is required. This article sets up and tests a methodology, but the broad ranging analysis required by this problem is obviously beyond the scope of the article.

This analysis does show that the attribution of emotional and economic benefits to same-sex couples certainly cannot be denied on the basis of an assumption of dependence in heterosexual couples.

Conclusion

Because the division of labour within relationships occurs in the private sphere, and is therefore often invisible, the perception that economic benefits are granted to the members of a heterosexual couple merely because they form a recognised couple is heightened. The conferral of economic benefits is linked primarily to the recognition of emotionally significant relationships which as yet do not consistently include homosexual relationships. The underlying reasons for the conferral of recognition of different types should be examined in any discussion of an extension of those forms of recognition.

Reluctance to recognise the needs of homosexual people concerning redress of economic disparities occurring during their relationship may be linked to different causes of dependence for heterosexual and homosexual partners. There appears to be an assumption that there is no detrimental role division in same-sex partnerships. In fact, there is nothing precluding such detrimental role division. Where detrimental role division does take place in same-sex relationships it is not in response to the same pressures felt by women in heterosexual relationships. For this reason it may seem more compelling to recognise dependence in heterosexual relationships, which is not chosen freely but dictated by social structure, than dependence in homosexual relationships which appears to be a function of choice.

Although this reasoning has validity it seems unnecessarily harsh to extend it beyond benefits bestowed directly on a member of a couple by the state in an attempt to redress action taken in response to societal and state pressure. Where the above reasoning is used to affect access by members of a couple to laws that provide mechanisms for an internal redistribution of property within the couple itself in an attempt to redress the economic disparities created as a result of role division within that couple, it produces undesirable results. The reason the couple adopted the role division should not be a relevant consideration when considering the attribution of economic benefits.

Given the diversity of modern relationships, the consequent irrelevance of an assumption of dependence in an increasing number of heterosexual relationships, and the incidence of dependence in homosexual couples, it seems that before any benefits are conferred on members of a couple, whether they are homosexual or heterosexual, the basis on which that benefit is conferred needs to be established and the relevance of the benefit examined.

References


[1] Among other things, the Property (Relationships) Legislation Amendment Act 1999 amends the title of the De Facto Relationships Act 1984 to the Property (Relationships) Act 1984.
[2] See Sarantakos, S., ‘Same-Sex Marriage: which way to go?’ (1999) 24(2) Alternative Law Journal 79 for an example of the current debate on the most appropriate form of legal recognition of same sex relationships.
[3] Walker, K., ‘Same-Sex Relationships and the Law’, (1997) 22(6) Alternative Law Journal 294.
[4] In my analysis of economic benefits I have not addressed the appropriateness or otherwise of the manner in which the state treats members of married or de facto couples in its direct interaction with the members of those couples, for example in relation to the treatment of recognised couples in taxation and social security law. I consider only the availability of mechanisms that operate between the members of a couple to redress any disadvantage suffered as a result of the adoption of a relationship of dependence. The issue of dependence would be important in any exploration of the appropriateness of the manner in which the state treats members of emotionally significant couples.
[5] Walker, K., above, at 294.
[6] Neave, M., ‘From Difference to Sameness — Law and Women’s Work’, (1992) 18(2) Melbourne University Law Review 794.
[7] Neave, M., above, at 795.
[8] Neave, M., above, at 807.
[9] Neave, M., above, at 768.
[10] Land, H., ‘Changing Women’s Claims to Maintenance’, in Freeman M.D.A. (ed), The State, the Law, and the Family, Critical Perspectives, Tavistock Publications, Sweet and Maxwell, New York, 1984, p.27.
[11] Sarantakos, S., ‘Legal Recognition of Same-Sex Relationships’, (1998) 23(5) Alternative Law Journal 225.
[12] Sarantakos S., above, at 224, Table 1.
[13] Sarantakos, S., ‘Same-Sex Marriage: which way to go?’ (1999) 24(2) Alternative Law Journal 84.


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